Jani Ladner

I have always been a writer. Growing up I use to keep a journal and document all of my thoughts, goals, and any other dreams. It was a serious passion of mine and at one point I wanted to be an author. I wanted to write fiction stories about love and romance. I’m such a hopeless romantic and wanted to share my love for love with the world. I soon hit a lazy phase, so I went to college to study broadcasting journalism. I knew I wanted to do something in journalism and I thought I wanted to be in front of the screen but boy was I wrong. I am such a quiet and shy person, why did I ever think that would work?

I went through a lot of different majors in college. I did not know exactly what I wanted to do. I was just trying to quickly get a degree, in a field that did not require a lot of work. LAZY! I decided to take a break, find myself, figure out what I want then return, but God had other plans.

During my break I did find myself, I met my now husband during that time and had my first child. All of this did hinder me from going back to school when I had originally planned but that is okay because so much more came from it. I enrolled in school online, got married, and had my second child. While I am still enrolled in school today, this is when I decided to get back into writing and start my own blog. This is where The Lxe Mama (B. Lxe) was created.


Unlike my bestfriend I’ve never been much of a writer but reading has always been a outlet for me. I would sit in my grandmas rocking chair and would be completely lost for hours in a book. But, as I got older and responsibilities hit I had to choose between sleep or reading and let’s just say sleep would frequently win.

Throughout time I moved away from home and began to be consumed with work. Some night I would cry myself to sleep from being so overwhelmed. With being a full time Psychology student, working full time as a registered line technician, doing hair as a side hustle and trying to have some type of social life I had lost myself and had no idea how to find it but I knew something had to change.

Fast forward to now I decided I move home and take a break from school to find myself and what I truly wanted in life. During this move my bestfriend proposed the idea of me joining her blog. At first I was very nervous and questioned if I could be that open and vulnerable. BUT, I took a leap of faith and the rest is history. This blog has given me a outlet to talk about relationships, health, music and soo much more while also helping other me. So join us as we open our lives to you guys…

Welcome To B.Lxe

Key & Jani
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B. Lxe is a lifestyle blog about our daily life and experiences. You will find relationship talks, fashion and fitness tips, and also lots of recipes. These are only a few things that we have to offer. There is so much more in store for this website so please bare with us. Join The B. Lxe Experience by becoming a Bumble Lxie, go ahead and subscribe.